The size of the penis is a sensitive subject for many men, especially if their genital organ does not have a size to be proud of.
However, the most suitable penis size is a controversial topic, with opinions being divided.
Every woman, and also every man, has his own opinion about what the optimal penis size is.
Most men with small penis probably feel embarrassed when it comes to intercourse, believing that satisfaction comes only from size. In this article, we want to show you that it’s not the size that matters in bed, but the chosen position. Here, then, are 6 sex positions for a small penis to satisfy your partner even if the size does not compete with that of adult films.
Women are not interested in a long penis
Although society may have made you believe something completely different, you must know that sometimes “too much is bad”!
This also applies to penis size. As with male genitalia, vaginas differ from woman to woman.
But on average, a vagina in a relaxed state has a depth of about 7 cm and an opening of 2.5 cm, and when excited, the dimensions of the vagina increase, and the depth can reach a size between 12 and 15 centimeters.
A penis larger than 15 cm can be painful for women, especially if their vagina is not very deep. Knowing how to use your penis is more important than wishing for a bigger one.
What does a small penis mean?
There is no clear answer to the question: “What size should my penis be so that I don’t have problems in bed?” “.
Surprisingly, the difficulty in answering this question is metrological rather than anatomical in nature. World measurement standards indicate that the average size of the male reproductive organ is between 12.7 and 15.2 centimeters (measured when erect).
Although this aspect could represent an impediment in terms of sex life, generating unwanted tension, the solution to this problem is to choose an appropriate sex position, that is, one that favors your dimensions. Here are some of them.
Goat position
In a previous article, we discussed the benefits of this position for your partner’s orgasm. This position can also be to the advantage of people with small penises because the control is shared between the two partners.
If the man has a small penis, the partner can help him with the stimulation by flexing the legs. This movement shortens the distance between the head of the penis and the vaginal canal, improving penetration.
Magic Mountain
Beyond the position’s mystical-tinged name, the magical mountain puts a lot of emphasis on comfort and privacy. For best results, ask your partner to sit on her knees with her back to you. Place one or more pillows under her breasts so she can lean on them during penetration.
The magic mountain pose is similar to the goat pose, except that your partner will sit in a much more comfortable position, thus being able to focus on the movements of the pelvis. With support under her elbows, you can ask her to lean forward a little more for deeper penetration.
Butterfly position
An ideal position to give your partner the feeling of control over the entire sexual act. As a rule, this position requires a piece of furniture with an extended surface such as the kitchen table.
For the butterfly, sit face up on the table, lift your pelvis and place your feet on your partner’s shoulders. He will put his hands on his partner’s buttocks, using this to control penetration. The butterfly position is ideal for men with small penises as the angle greatly helps stimulate the clitoris.
Snail position
Very similar to missionary, the snail position can improve your sex life if your partner has a small penis. For this position, ask your partner to lie on her back with a pillow under her head.
Lift her legs and tell her to place her ankles on your shoulders. The snail position requires a bit of physical effort, as the woman has to hold her pelvis at quite an angle to allow her partner to penetrate her.
The Hound position
Greyhound is a variation of the goat pose. As in the previous cases, ask your partner to sit on her knees with her elbows bent. The man will also kneel behind her and penetrate her.
After penetration, the man can lean forward even more, so that his chest is pressed against the back of the partner, to facilitate his access to the stimulation of the mother.
Butterfly Position Variant 2
If you want something a little more exciting, you can use a chair instead of a table. Keep in mind that this position is slightly uncomfortable for her as she will have to rest on her palms throughout the intercourse. Here’s what you need to do.
Ask her to bend in front of you with her hands fully extended and her palms placed on a higher chair. Although it seems a bit strange, this position will facilitate your access to the clitoris even if you have a small penis. For a hotter game, you can ask her to help you by flexing your glutes.
Spoon position
The woman lies on her side with her back to the man, who, thanks to this position, can touch and caress her at will, while he can penetrate her quite deeply.
CowGirl with her back
Both classic CowGirl and reverse CowGirl allow for deep penetration, which gives both partners great sensations. Besides, CowGirl with the back is also very simple to do, being a comfortable position. The position consists of placing the partner on top, with her back to the man, who is lying on his back. To help her and give her a more comfortable position, the man can slightly bend his knees.
Pole position
The man must lie on his back, and the partner on top, with her back to him. She must have her feet facing either right or left, with one of his feet between hers. Through this position, the partner’s hips will be positioned a little lower, thus giving you the opportunity to penetrate her deeply. Just what you need if you have a small penis.
T position
For this position, you need to be in bed or on a sofa. You lie down and lean on your elbows below. She is standing on top with her legs by your side and leaning on her arms to keep herself on top. During penetration, it is good to listen to your rhythm and synchronize it. This position allows for both deep penetration, which those with small penises need, and easy access for hand stimulation of the clitoris. The vagina has fewer nerve endings than the clitoris, which is stimulated only intermittently in most sexual positions.
That’s why positions that allow clitoral stimulation and deep vaginal penetration are ideal for people with small penises.
Standing
Also known as the bicycle, this position allows for incredibly deep penetration. Sit on the edge of a bed or desk while your partner lies on her back and brings her legs up to her chest. Her knees are bent as if doing a “cycling” exercise. From there, grab her ankles and penetrate her. This is another position that allows for both deep penetration and manual stimulation of the clitoris.
Anal sex
If you have never had anal sex before, the ideal way to start would be with a man who has a small penis. In this way, you will not feel intimidated and your partner and you will feel good. Instead of repeating myself, you should read an article I wrote about ways you can have satisfying and pain-free anal sex. If you are afraid of anal sex because of the pain or the embarrassing situations it could put you in, I suggest you document yourself regarding the following things:
1. Hygiene of anal sex – naturally, yes, anal sex is dirty and this is not unusual. To avoid situations… let’s say brown, it is essential that before a game of anal sex you use an anal irrigator. It is one of the most effective ways to clean the anus and prepare it for a game of anal sex, without you or your partner having unpleasant surprises.
2. Use a lubricant – I hope you didn’t think about having anal sex without proper lubrication.
3. “Train” before – if you want to experience anal pleasures by yourself, you can use a small vibrator, or why not, you can experience anal balls.
The size of the penis does not affect pleasure
Now I have wonderful news: The size of the penis has absolutely no effect on the pleasure a woman can feel. A bigger penis does not equal more pleasure during sex.
If you sleep with a woman, the size of the penis is not very important, because penetration is not the most pleasant sexual activity for women. Most of the nerve endings of the female genital organs are focused in the clitoris. There are so few nerve endings in the vaginal canal that not even a scientific note talks about them. This means that deeper penetration does not create more pleasure.
Penetration itself is not the most pleasant activity for women, because it does not create much clitoral stimulation. In fact, 70-80% of women cannot have an orgasm only after penetration. Women can feel subtle differences between small and large penises, but it’s more a matter of fullness than pleasure.
If you sleep with a man and you are that partner penetrated in the anus, a smaller penis is preferable. The rectum is not able to stretch in the same way as the vagina, so a smaller penis feels better than a larger one.
Of course, there are people who would prefer a larger-than-normal penis. But the size of the penis is not an obstacle for most people. If you feel worried about the size of your penis, think about what would happen if men also chose women based on the size of their labia, breasts, etc.
How to enjoy sex with a smaller penis
So, regardless of whether your penis is big or small, it all boils down to enthusiasm and technique. The average length of the penis is 13.10 cm. If your penis is smaller than that, statistically speaking, you have a small penis. But that doesn’t mean anything. At the end of the day, it’s not the size that matters, but the way you move your penis.
Women are not fixated on size, popular culture has made it seem like they are, but I’m here to tell you that it’s not true. So if you want to improve your sex life, you’ve come to the right place. Because, regardless of whether you have a smaller or larger penis, there is always room for improvement.
Get over penis size
If you’ve ever wanted to experience explosive sex and master the art of having sex with a small penis, you’ll have to get over your penis size. If you’re worried about it, you won’t be able to relax, and that’s a huge problem. So, first, you have to accept the size of the penis. Now is the time.
Penetration is not the main event
Many men think that penetration is the climax, but it is not. First of all, most of the nerve endings are in the vaginal canal, which is in the outer third of the vagina that most penises can touch. However, other than that, women love oral sex and manual stimulation, so vaginal penetration is not the main highlight.
It didn’t mention anything about penis size
Whatever you do, if you want to have an exceptional sex match, don’t mention anything about the size of your penis. What do you expect a woman to say when you talk to her about the size of her penis? It is an embarrassing situation and shows that you have self-esteem problems regarding your penis. From that moment on, sex will never reach the level you want. Leave conversations about penis size out of the bedroom.
Through this article, we tried to show you that regardless of the size of the penis, there are solutions for a hot night with your girlfriend. We advise you to experiment as much as possible and don’t get discouraged if you don’t get what you want on the first try.